Marriage is not a 1 day thing, it is for eternal. From the time you are getting married both the bride and groom are treated as the same person. So that is the beauty of marriage. Weddings only last a day but not the marriage.
Marriage is a beautiful relationship that begins in everyone’s life. When you have chosen to spend the rest of your life with the one you love, not everything will be a fairy tale. However, it brings you two much closer because you start understanding each other better. Okay ! What are the things that no one tells you about marriage?
- Compromising is important:
It is, and you cannot escape this process. That’s the whole thing about marriages and especially between people who love each other. Compromising is needed for all the relationships be it a family, friends. But compromising with your better half helps you to understand each other more. Marriage is something that is going to last a lifetime and your better half is the person who is going to stick by your side till that lifetime. There will be compromising sessions on everything, there’s no such thing as a fairy tale, you will be able to understand the perception of your better half through this. The person you love will always wish nice things for you, so compromising at times can help you more.
- Your plans will change/alter/or get cancelled often:
After your wedding, there is no single plan, it’s a combined plan. There will be sudden guests, or a commitment which needs to be met and you just cannot refuse. Plans do get a hit then. Marriage relationship is important and you need to prioritize it. Before your wedding, you could have kept up with the schedule as you are single and you did not have any commitment, but after the wedding you have a person who has planned to share your journey till the eternity, they also need to be given importance.
You may not visit your friends on a saturday evening as scheduled because there may be an important commitment that is there with the better half that you cannot refuse to fulfil.
This does not mean you need to change every plan, the important ones need to be given priority, it all lies in the understanding of the married couple.
- Everything will become one from ‘1+1=2 ’:
After the wedding there is no one way decision, there is only sit, discuss and decide. Everything, because you will not be deciding for yourself anymore. You become us now.The important thing about marriage life is trust and it can be built over time by the married couples. This starts from decision making. Everytime you come across a situation, you need to sit and discuss before making a decision, as you are not anymore single and there is a person who is your better half. The decisions that affect you, affects them also. Your better half is family and another friend, who can bring you out of your situations easily.
There is no place for ego in this relationship. This relationship runs on love and understanding of each other.
- Your marriage will never be boring:
One of the other things no one tells you about marriage is that marriages are not boring. It’s actually another world of fun and happy things. It’ll not just make you go crazy but also give you the happiest memories and experiences you would ever have.
There will be fights, compromises and things like every other relationship but a marriage relationship will make this even more beautiful. There will be new surprises in life everyday as you will not feel a married life as a normal routine life. When you begin to start a married life, you will see that every morning will be a new one and exciting things happen around you that words cannot explain and that can only be felt. As long as there is love a marriage will always be beautiful.
- You will be each other’s pillar when things go wrong:
A marriage is not only for people to start living as a couple but also have each other back during tough times. You can always count on each other. That’s one huge perk of marriage.
When you face a tough situation, there will be a person who is there to tap on your shoulder to tell “everything is fine” to motivate you and stick by your side. Even if you reach a bottom line in life, they will stick by your side to lift you up, that is why marriage relationships are much more than any other relationships in life.
Never enter a marriage life thinking it as only a fairy tale. It is a fairy tale but with compromises, fights, etc. But in the end everything is worth for a better half. Having seen this, if you are heading for a wedding, you need the best wedding photographer. Contact Arun Prasad Photography, our team has made the best wedding moments for couples.